BDSM Mastery - Basics - Robet J. Rubel, Ph.D & M. Jen Fairfield

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BDSM Mastery - Basics: your guide to play, parties, and scene protocols

This is not a book that explains what BDSM is, this is a book that explains what BDSM is all about. It’s a book for people who are considering stepping into real time BDSM, and people who have been involved in the community for a while. 

This book treats the world of BDSM as a culture unto itself and goes a long way into explaining the expectations, rules, and words that are common to this culture. This book does not tell you how to use any implements (floggers, canes, etc), but it does explain why in the world you’d want to use such implements. This is a must-have resource book for your kink library.

  • Publisher: ‎ Red Eight Ball Press (December 17, 2014)
  • Weight: 11.5 ounces
  • Size: 6 x 0.54 x 9 inches
  • Paperback: 238 pages
BDSM Mastery - Relationships: a guide for creating mindful relationships for Dominants and submissives

This is the second book in the BDSM Mastery series. While the first book oriented readers to play, parties, and scene protocols, this book addresses Dominant/submissive relationships.

What, you might ask, are "BDSM Relationships?" These are "adventuresome" relationships that differ in two specific ways from your typical vanilla relationship: first, they usually involve a power-imbalanced structure (one person is clearly in charge and the other person is clearly following); second, the kind of sex that adventuresome folks practice is, well, not vanilla.

I wrote this book to help you better understand the power dynamics that get involved with what are called power-imbalanced relationships (usually referred to as Dominant/submissive or D/s relationships).

  • Educational Fetish Book
  • Step-by-Step Guide
  • Instructional Handbook
  • Publisher: ‎ BDSM (December 31, 2014)
  • Weight: 9.1 ounces
  • Size: 6 x 0.42 x 9 inches
  • Paperback: 186 pages

Robet J. Rubel, Ph.D., (Dr. Bob), author, educator and photographer is an educational sociologist and researcher by training. The recipient of the 2008 Pantheon of Leather’s Community Choice Award (man), Dr. Bob has been involved in the BDSM and Total Power Exchange (TPE) scene since the summer of 2001, throwing himself into the literature of the field as though it were an academic study. He presents, judges, and sells his books at weekend kink conferences throughout the year.

M. Jen Fairfield grew up in the world of authority-imbalanced relationships. She was the daughter of a military officer who taught his family about honor, integrity, and loyalty as well as about formal, structured behavior. Jen found her home in the Leather culture in the fall of 2010 and has embraced her calling as a Leather woman—to live a highly focused life with partners who are willing to hold themselves to exacting moral and ethical standards.


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